Help ME! How do I stop?
First off let me say that if you really truly want to stop hurting the ones you love it will take a lot of hard work and time. You will see yourself in ways you don't want to but at the end of the road you CAN change. If you are ready we are here to help you along the way!
Step 1) You already are on the way because you are here. You can do this.
Step 2) Seek professional counseling! You need someone to help you through this battle. Go to the local resources page and find someone local. You will probably also want to join a group for support.
Step 3) Join the online community, read the testimonials of those choosing the same path as you. Write your story and let others encourage you to change your life.
Some Materials to Help You Along the Way